26 May 2014
It's been a really long time since I have posted on here. Almost a full year. I tried running a blog on a couple other services
but ultimately there is really no service out there that can solve my horrible ability to consistently come up with things to
write about. I guess I should just blame it on being busy.
So where am I at a full year later? Well, I started a new company called Retsly and things are moving along
really really well. We've been at it since August and big things are happening which is great.
Anyway, lets keep this one short so I have more to say next time.
17 Apr 2013
I didn't end up posting my goals very early this year because it took me a bit of time to reflect on what was important.
Now that I'm clear on what I want in 2013 it's time to reflect on 2013 thus far and actually define my goals for the rest
of the year.
On the professional side I have been true to my 2013 goal of working remotely and focusing on both
my own personal business as a consultant as well as AppLabz. As a consultant I've take on work with the awesome
team over at Datahero who are launching very soon and are going to do big things.
They are a data visualization service built on great technology and are lead by two amazing founders. More on that later.
AppLabz is also doing great. We secured a small angel round and have opened a sales office in Costa Mesa. Still
growing and have some amazing new ideas on the horizon.
On the personal side, I've lost 30lbs. I'm particularly proud of that. My size is something I've struggled
with for a long time. It turns out it was easier to change then I thought. 6 weeks ago I started cutting carbs
I lost about 15lbs over 5 weeks with little to no exercise. A little a over a week ago I decided to start a
juice diet where I do not eat any solid food and only injest high in micro-nutrient veggies and some fruit
for flavor. The catch is they have to be juiced. I got this idea from a movie called
Fat, Sick and Nearly Dead and started immediately. In the last week I've lost
the same amount of weight I lost in the first 5 weeks. Again with little to no exercise.
Summer is coming so my goals are going to change but stay the same. My goal on the professional side is to maintain the pace
and consistency of both my businesses endeavors. I also want to network more by attending more conferences.
On the personal side I want to maintain my push towards an ideal weight while also focusing on optimizing my approach
to the summer months so that at the end of the summer not only have I reached my weight goal but I can look back and
know that I also enjoyed a balanced work / life equation.
To be more specific there are two goals that stand out in the life part of that equation. The first is I want to spend more quality
time with my wife through travel and recreation. This means camping and road trips. The other
part of the equation relates directly to biking. My goal at the end of the bike season is to confidently ride all of the same
features that I narrowly conquered in whistler last summer and hopefully add another one or two. The goal ultimately is
physical confidence in that environment.
So that's it. Albeit a little late, those are the goals for now till end of summer. They seem simple enough, all that's left is to do it.
31 Dec 2012
I decided to write out a little retrospective for 2012. Something to help me
to reflect on where I started and where I ended and where I deviated.
A week before 2012 started I got the idea for my current business AppLabz.
I was able to get a pretty solid prototype up over the xmas break and decided
that by the end of 2012 I wanted to have enough SAAS revenue established that I could
feel confident pursuing it more aggressively. My goal was to decide within 1
year if this was something I could eventually work on full time and if it was I
would go for it.
I worked at Blast Radius full time (remotely) until mid year. This position was a good
match for what I needed. I was able to work remotely and the work was not all that
time consuming or challenging. It allowed me to spend my spare time focused on AppLabz
and eventually AppLabz was able to gain some traction.
Around mid year I got antsy. AppLabz wasn't growing as fast as I hoped it would and I was
feeling unfulfilled with my job at Blast so I made a change. I started shopping around for start up
jobs that focused on node.js and other bleeding edge technologies that interest me.
I spent about 3 months looking at different options. I probably had 50 or so interviews
with different companies that interested me. Most notably Mozilla Labs,
who even flew me out to CA for a on site and Twitter.
After flunking both those interviews I realized I wanted to stay local and work at a start up. I eventually
settled on Reelhouse. It fit the bill for everything I wanted in
a job. Everything went well for the 2nd half of the year.
A month or two after starting Reelhouse, AppLabz really started to take off and before I knew it
we were signing up hundreds of paid users for our MLS IDX solution. We attended a few conferences and
met some people who were really interested and things have become painfully clear that this thing
has a chance to make it and will do big things in 2013.
So in December I made the decision to go back to working remotely. If there is one thing I learned
in 2012 is that I need to learn how to be patient, the grass is not always greener. I also learned
that I am not happy working in an office. I am way more happy working from home and that I need to have
more control over what I work on. Mostly I realized I need to have variety to be motivated. But
also from the perspective of being able to manage the growth of this new business.
Looking forward, 2013 is gonna be a big one. I hope to have something pretty exciting to report
about AppLabz in the next week or two. I'm going to try to layout my goals a little more clearly this year.
Hopefully next week (after I finalize my AppLabz news) I'll post my goals for 2013 so that
at the end of the year I can come back and reflect with a better analysis. Also it should help me to
remember to remain consistent in what I plan to accomplish in 2013, so if I get antsy again I can simply
remind myself of the plan for 2013.
12 Dec 2012
Bipolar - It's not a bug it's a feature.
Nov 23 2012 - Gastown, Vancouver
UPDATE: Join the conversation on Hacker News
I am bipolar II. I say it that way because I don't see bipolar disorder as something you have.
To me it is something you are. For people who aren't familiar with this form of "mental illness" here
is a quick excerpt from Wikipedia:
Bipolar disorder or bipolar affective disorder (historically known as manic-depressive disorder)
is a psychiatric diagnosis for a mood disorder in which people experience disruptive mood swings.
These encompass a frenzied state known as mania (or hypomania) usually alternated with symptoms of depression.
Bipolar disorder is defined by the presence of one or more episodes of abnormally elevated energy levels,
cognition, and mood with or without one or more depressive episodes.
The people who know me they might think That makes sense. The honest truth is that if you really know me,
then you've probably seen the negative results either first hand or indirectly. Especially if you knew me
10 years ago. I can't lie, there have been times things have gotten really bad for me over the years but
the truth is that there have been been excessively positive times as well.
I'm expressing this openly on the internet because I think, particularly in the hacker culture, there is very little
said about "mental illness". I can understand why. In an industry where you are judged for your ability to solve
intellectually complex problems, being open about a "mental illness" doesn't inspire confidence most of the time.
I probably won't change that but I can at least be honest about my life and hope that someone struggling to understand
what is going on with their own situation might learn something about themselves from my personal experiences.
The first time I remember feeling it I was 8. I was playing with kids in the school yard, feeling on top of the world.
So very excited, screaming, yelling, chasing and then all the sudden it happened. Some kid said something to me about being selfish
and my self worth instantly shattered. I spent the rest of the school year sitting on the side lines by myself hoping someone
would come, accept who I am and tell me it was ok and life would go on. That never happened.
Time passed and as I turned into a teenager things got a lot more intense. Probably due to the hormones that
were thrown into the mix. By this time it was apparent that something was "wrong". My parents tried taking me to counselling
and they determined I had an anxiety disorder. I was prescribed Paxil.
This was my first experience with medication.
I started drumming and became interested in computers so for a little while I was able to maintain. Eventually I started "experimenting"
with alcohol and pot like most high schoolers do but I started taking it to the extreme. Everything was like that. I couldn't do anything
without trying to do it harder, better and inherently with more risk then those around me.
I started giving up on things that didn't satisfy my mania and things went off the rails. Looking back I have no idea
why but I had gotten it into my head that I needed to prove myself. I felt I needed to prove that I wasn't dependent on anyone, that at 16 I
could move out, live on my own, make my own money and support myself. High school was a write off for many reasons but
this was the main reason. I moved to the city lived in a homeless shelter for a while. I came off Paxil because effectively
I was a street kid and couldn't afford it. I don't wish that on anyone. I can only describe "The Paxil Flu" as what it must feel like
to come off of heroin. It was miserable but eventually it passed and I swore off meds. I eventually got a job at a pita joint and
rented my first apartment. I had accomplished my goal, now what? I spent a few more months raging out and barely scraping by
and then it happened again. The pit of depression. Everything came crashing down just like before.
My best friends mother was diagnosed with cancer and shortly there after died. I don't know why it affected me the way it did.
Albeit she was like a second mother to me and they were both like family, but I don't think it was that specifically. I think somewhere
deep down I realized how selfish I'd been. I saw how it crushed my mother and suddenly I could hear that kid from the school yard again.
I realized how I'd treated my family, how hard they tried to get through to me, and how stubborn I was. I moved back home
and spent the next couple years fighting the cycle of my moods. When I was younger the cycles weren't so rapid but as I started to
become of age, the cycles intensified and the extremes became more familiar. Going to school was a joke. I would skip weeks at a
time simply because I couldn't drag myself out of bed. If I did go to school nothing would be accomplished because my energy levels
would be too high to focus on anything that didn't match my stimulus requirements.
More and more I started to turn to computers as an intellectual challenge that would help me fill the stimulus gap that existed from
attending a public school system. I was in a band and eventually became interested in one subject. Entrepreneurship. I would skip every other
class of the day and just go see Mr Worthylake for this one class. As sort of a class project I started a concert production "company" (used loosely).
Things progressed and before I knew it I was booking bands that I would have only ever heard of on TV and I would "guarantee" them hundreds
(sometimes thousands) of dollars to come to my small town to play music for people. This is when things started going really well for me.
I was proud for the first time in my young adult life. I was making money and I felt important among my peers.
Looking back I realize that I was always bound to be an entrepreneur. I loved the risk involved. Will people show up? Or will I have to fork
over the thousands of dollars in expenses from my own pocket? I had like a 99% success rate and I now realize that it was one of the most satisfying
periods of my young life.
After focusing on just that for a few years I decided I needed a change. The risk didn't quench my thirst any more so I decided to move to
Banff Alberta where a lot of my friends were living. I spent a year there working crappy jobs making just enough to snowboard. It was fun for a
bit but it turned out to be the same old crap but in a new place. I eventually was fired from my $6.35/hr job for missing work so I decided to move on.
I had no idea where I was going, so I spent a month or so in town at the internet cafe using what little money I had left to help my
friends build a website for their band. Then it hit me like a truck. I like computers, I like entrepreneurship. I'll do that.
I moved to Toronto and took some night courses on programming. I didn't learn anything because the courses were meant for older people with no experience who
were aiming at a career change but they at least validated that I was somewhat decent at what I do on computers. I spent the next 6 years or
so working for a variety of places as a developer during the day to mitigate the risk, while trying to build "the next big thing" in the evenings.
Things were relatively stable. I found myself able to lock into programming tasks that required intense cognition and mental clarity for long periods of time.
I solved some pretty awesome problems and the cycles were becoming more and more obvious.
Then one day out of no where my teenage sister sent me a link and said a few words that would changed my life forever...
"Kyle, I think you are bipolar"
I read the article and instantly a light went on. Holy crap. I am bipolar. I started spending as much time as I could learning about bipolar.
I started trying to hack my mood disorder. I looked for triggers. Things that would invoke my mania as well as shut me down, in both cases
without reaching the extremes, something I now call "the safezone". I found that the spark of a new entrepreneurial idea was without fail the best
way to invoke mania which would then allow me to focus completely on really complex problems with relatively little distraction. There were
times I would sit down at 5pm to work on an idea and before I knew it, the sun would be coming up and I would have almost no memory of the
last 12 hours. It felt like a super power, but it was one I would have to train. I spent many of those years coming up with sparks, executing
them and working on pulling myself out of the mania without crashing. None of these things were actually good ideas, but that didn't matter.
I was like the karate kid and bipolar was like Mr Miyagee. I was training for the future. This was a feature, not a bug and I planned to use
it to my advantage.
Eventually I moved to Vancouver. I met my amazing wife, bought a house and worked some more full time jobs. Real white picket fence type shit.
Things briefly went off the rails about a year before we were married but this time I had trained myself to recognize the patterns and adapt.
It was a really pivotal time for me. I did not want to lose the woman I would eventually marry so I went to seek help for the first time in 12 years.
My wife eventually told me this was the moment she knew she'd marry me because I was strong enough to put my pride aside in an attempt to
save our relationship. The doctor turned out to be a world known specialist in this field. Within 5 minutes or so he was 100% sure that I am bipolar.
He prescribed me some Lithium and I went on my way.
I spent 8 months or so on Lithium. I'll be honest. I felt awesome in a lot of ways once it kicked in. The cycles went away entirely. Things were good
but something was still wrong. I started gaining weight and I realized something was missing. The skill that I had been training was no longer affective.
When I lost the cycles I also lost my mania. I lost the ability to go long times with relatively strong cognitive focus and my work suffered. I tried
everything to get it back but it just wasn't there. So I made a decision. I came off medication and started training it again. This time I took
a different approach to my training. It would have to be more then just mental this time. It would have to include a lot of physical training and
also more discipline.
I began working out a few times a week, eating better and watching my sleeping habits on top of the mental training. The last
year is by far the best I've felt. Shortly after a good idea actually came to me and I pounced on the opportunity to test my training and prove
myself once again. This time I would be proving myself in a way that actually mattered. I would be starting a real business and while there would be risk
involved I would mitigate that risk in a way that made rationale sense. I started a company called AppLabz and now a year down the
road we are bootstrapped and fully profitable. I also find that I have been able to strengthen my resolve and manage my cycles in a way that I never
could before. I've never been legitimately happier in my life, but something is STILL missing.
I realize now as I write this and reflect on my life that there is something I have never been able to accept about myself. I love risk. I like to put
my balls on the table and take chances. I think I've forgotten this because so many people I love are very risk adverse. I can understand why they would look
at me and think, he should probably avoid risk because he's bipolar. The truth is, I love it and I need it to feel alive.
I like to take risks and if I ever hope to truly be at one with the best feature I have been given
in this life, I have to embrace that. I lost it somewhere along the lines when I decided to grow up. Now I look back at my passion as a teenager
running a promotion company and I realize that was when I felt the most alive. The last 8 years or so I've been working these full time jobs for
other people, trying to come up with something during my "time off" that would be viable. Well it's time to stop lying to myself about who I really am.
Today I told my boss I'm leaving my full time job to pursue AppLabz. I am going to stop lying to myself. I am bipolar. I am a hacker.
I am an entrepreneur and I love risk.
This realization does not mean that I have beaten my "illness" but the entire point is that I don't need to beat it. I like to think that I've been
able to use the hacker way to understand it and eventually engineer it so I can succeed at my life in a way that I am proud of. I often wonder
if more people in the hacker community haven't also experienced a similar battle within themselves. I'm not sure the industry standard lends
itself to people being open about this type of thing however I do think that it is very likely that some of the things that make up a great
hack-trepreneur can also lend themselves to personality defects or mental "illnesses".
If you have a "mental illness" it is important to remember that it is only a negative thing if you allow it to be. No matter what people think
it is up to you to find what works for you. I found that once I began thinking of bipolar as a feature rather then a bug it all became a lot more clear.
I also realized in writing this that I still have a lot to learn about myself, but one thing I know for sure is that I'm not sick. At least I don't think so.
I guess it depends on who you ask.
29 Oct 2012
This applies more so to independent recruitment firms then it does in house recruiters.
In the past I've received 30 emails in a week from recruiters. These days it's more like 5-10. In the last 5 years I would estimate I've been sent at very least
100 opportunities a year. That's 500 opportunities I have had the chance to consider. One of these was even a recruiter trying to hire me for the job I quit the day before.
Of the rest of the 499 potential opportunities, 1 has lead to a job. It was my first job. In any other industry, providing a service that is 1/500 would speak volumes to the
effectiveness of the service. While that may or may not be true I still believe opportunity breeds opportunity so I entertain every email that I get from recruiters.
Even though it's proved not be effective in my career I still entertain all opportunities. I have come up with a list entitled How to recruit me so that recruiters will
know what the best way to approach me is if they truly want to hire me. In the interest of increasing the effectiveness and decreasing the amount of time I spend wasting
time with bad third party recruiters I offer this advice and hope you will implement it
If you want to recruit me:
1) Contact me via email first. Do not call my personal phone number during business hours until I explicitly express interest in speaking about the job more.
2) When you contact me via email, provide me full transparency on the opportunity. This builds trust and I only work with people I trust. Include the company name, and whatever
job description you have. If I do not know who the company is, I am not likely to pursue your lead as for all I know, it's the company I am currently working for.
If you are a recruitment firm, I will never go to the company directly but I must know who they are before going forward.
3) If you try to pressure me to meet in person or talk on the phone before I validate that I am interested in your opportunity I will not be interested in your opportunity.
4) If we have spoken before or I have spoken to people in your recruitment firm you will get a lot of points for knowing that, referencing it and not duplicating effort.
5) Please make sure you read my Linked In and Resume.
Thank you for reading this. I wish you the best of luck with recruiting me.